North County Men's Conference

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The Men of North County will be rallying for a two-day conference called
True Valor: Confronting the Deadliest Manslayers of Our Times.

This conference will intentionally address the most common vices and evils that attack men, while offering an armory of practical tools and weapons to equip you to be the Priest, Provider and Protector you are called to be.

This conference will be many churches, but one brotherhood.
 
This is a charge to every man, and to neighboring and local churches to confront these manslayers with us as a united force. This is a call for men to stand and fight. This is a call for True Valor.


WHEN:
Friday August 23rd 5:00pm-9:30pm and
Saturday August 24th 8:00am-3:00pm

WHERE:
Hosted by Calvary Chapel Oceanside
3715 Oceanic Way, Oceanside, CA 92056. 

COST: 
$50 registration includes Friday dinner and Saturday lunch. 

conference trailers

The True Valor trailers are a call to arms for the men of North County. We believe men will be inspired and encouraged by the story and challenge presented. Shot on location at several known North County landmarks, this is truly an event for our cities and men. Please join us in sharing these with local pastors, leaders and men to help spread the word and rally others!
True Valor Teaser Trailer (1 minute)
True Valor Trailer- full version (2.5 minutes)

guest speakers

Dan Leitz

Lead Pastor
Calvary Chapel Oceanside
& Bonhoeffer Project CEO
Dan loves Jesus and His Church. He loves the Gospel, and its power to transform people. Dan wants to see many come to the saving knowledge of Jesus and learn to walk with Him daily. He loves God’s Word (the Bible), and loves to teach it. He's been teaching it for over 15 years. Dan is so blessed to be a husband and a father of three boys and one girl.

Daniel Bentley

Lead Pastor
Maranatha Chapel
Daniel has been a part of Maranatha Chapel since its inception, when his father started it in 1984. After attending Calvary Chapel Bible College, Daniel joined the staff as a janitor in 2001. He went on to serve as high school pastor for 8 years before moving with his wife and two kids to start a church in Parker Colorado. Ten years later, he handed that church over and returned to Maranatha to serve as Executive Pastor. In January 2022, after his dad’s passing, the church appointed Daniel their new senior pastor. He is married to his beautiful wife, Jill and together they have four wonderful children: Benjamin, Quinn, Andrew, and Haddyn.

JC Cooper

Associate Pastor
The Mission Church
JC has been married to his beautiful wife Jocelyn for 15 years, is a dad to four awesome kids, and has been part of the North County Coastal community his entire life. JC is the Associate Pastor at The Mission Church in downtown Carlsbad and a Chaplain for the Carlsbad Police Department. JC loves hiking with his family and pouring into the College & Young Adult group at The Mission Church. 

Kevin Bruce

Men's Pastor
Calvary Chapel Oceanside
Kevin grew up in Central CA and moved to Oceanside 20 years ago after graduating from Calvary Chapel Bible College.  He soon met his wife Rachel and together they have three children, Zaydin, Asher and Makaira.  Kevin has been in bi-vocational ministry for 15 years until joining the team full-time at Calvary Chapel Oceanside in 2019.  His main areas of focus have been to equip the men of the Church as leaders at ManUp and to foster and cultivate prayer.  Kevin longs to see a recovery of Biblical manhood in this generation, and to see an army of priests, providers and protectors raised up.  He believes that winning the men is key to turning the tides spiritually in our day. 

deadly manslayers

Passivity

Embracing the Role of Priest, Provider, and Protector
Death exists because the first man fell to the manslayer of passivity. This session delves into the dangers of avoiding responsibilities and the tendency to take the path of least resistance. We will learn how to reject passivity and embrace our roles as spiritual leaders in our homes and communities, addressing the evils that come from inaction and the neglect of confronting sin.

Fear

Overcoming the Fear of Fulfilling Your Calling
This session targets the paralyzing effects of fear which prevents men from taking risks and advancing in their spiritual and personal lives. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Gideon, we will be equipped with tools to overcome fear, embrace our God-given missions, and step into our callings with confidence and courage.

Lust

Breaking Free from Sexual Sin
Sexual sin is a pervasive manslayer that diminishes integrity, destroys relationships, and quenches our spiritual calling as men. In this session we will be provided with strategies to confront and overcome sexual sin, including resources for maintaining sexual integrity and rebuilding relationships affected by this manslayer. We will leave equipped to lead lives of purity and honor, enhancing our spiritual strength and impact on the world.

Aimlessness

Cultivating Vision and Intentionality
Aimlessness, or the lack of a clear vision for life, is a major manslayer. In this session, we will develop a spiritual compass for ourselves and our families. Through practical guidance and biblical principles, we will learn how to set intentional goals and live purposefully, fostering discipleship and leadership in every aspect of our lives.

workshops

Session 1

9:35am – 10:30am

Session 2

10:45am – 11:40am

Becoming a Pro-Visionary

How to begin facing outward and go from aimless to targeted living on God's mission for your life.
Speaker: Dr. Bill Davis, Calvary Chapel Oceanside
Location: Main Sanctuary
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Assuming the Mantle 

How to graciously assume spiritual leadership in the home and walk in the priestly role God has called you to without being a tyrant.
Speaker: Pastor Justin Windham, Faith Community Church 
Location: Main Sanctuary

True Husbandry 

How to cultivate your marriage and help your wife thrive.
Speaker: Pastor Troy Dewey, Maranatha Chapel
Location: Family Sanctuary

The Man In The Mirror 

How to overcome fear, the past, and seven lies that men believe.
Speaker: Pastor Chris Cannon, Sword & Shovel
Location: Family Sanctuary

Identity Theft

How the "Imago Dei" is under attack in our culture on every level and how to gain the courage to recover it.
Speaker: Pastor Jason Duff, The Garden Fellowship
Location:  Upper Room (upstairs)

The Intentional Father 

How to make timely and intentional deposits into your kids/grandkids and not waste your fatherly influence.
Speaker: John Choi, Calvary Chapel Oceanside
Location:  Upper Room (upstairs)

Dear Younger Me

How to prepare for manhood, marriage and family as a single man.  (Things I wish I knew 20 years ago.)
Speaker: Mark Stramaglia, Calvary Chapel Oceanside
Location: Room E (upstairs)

Area 51 

How to begin a sexual integrity ministry at your church, with step by step training, the do's and don'ts.
Speakers: Pastors TK Williams & Harvey Sega, Calvary Chapel Oceanside
Location: Room E (upstairs)

Into The Light 

How to navigate coming clean, getting free and reconciling with others after sexual sin.
Speaker: Pastor Chris Cannon, Sword & Shovel
Location: Room F (upstairs)

Taking Ground in the Workplace

How to begin a Bible Study or Prayer Group at Work.

Speaker: David Townsend, Faith Community Church 
Location: Room F (upstairs)

Agenda

Friday, August 23rd 

5:00pm –  Arrive, Check-In, Eat and Fellowship!
5:30pm – 6:45pm – Dinner (Under Canopy)

6:30pm – Main Sanctuary Doors Open
7:00pm – Conference Begins (Main Sanctuary)
7:40pm – 8:25pm - Main Session 1

10 minute break

8:35pm – 9:20pm – Main Session 2
9:20pm – 9:30pm – Conclude

Saturday, August 24th

7:30am – Main Sanctuary Doors Open
8:00am – Conference Begins (Main Sanctuary)
8:35am – 9:20am – Main Session 3

9:35am – 10:30am – Workshop #1
10:45am – 11:40am – Workshop #2

11:45am – 12:55pm – Lunch (Under Canopy)

1:00pm – Conference Resumes (Main Sanctuary)
1:35pm – 2:20pm – Main Session 4
2:20pm – 2:30pm – Conclude

2:30pm – 3:30pm – Explore Resources in Courtyard

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the True Valor Men's Conference?
The 2024 True Valor Men's Conference is a two-day event focused on equipping men to confront and overcome the deadly manslayers of passivity, fear, aimlessness, and lust. It includes four main sessions and practical workshops led by various North county pastors and guest speakers.
When and where is the conference held?
The conference will be held on August 23-24, 2024 at Calvary Chapel Oceanside, 3715 Oceanic Way, Oceanside, CA 92056. 
How do I register for the conference?
Registration can be completed online through our website by clicking here. 
Who should attend this conference?
The conference is designed for men from all backgrounds, churches, and communities. Subject content is suitable for ages 16 and older. 
What themes will be covered in the main sessions?
  • Passivity: Overcoming the tendency to avoid responsibilities and embracing the role of a spiritual leader.
  • Lust: Breaking free from sexual sin and living a life of purity.
  • Fear: Conquering fear and stepping into your God-given calling.
  • Aimlessness: Developing a clear vision and intentionality for life.
What are the breakout sessions about?
Breakout sessions will introduce practical tools and deeper discussions on the main session topics, including:
  • Assuming Spiritual Leadership in the Home
  • Starting a Bible Study or Prayer Group at Work
  • Preparing for Marriage as a Single Man
  • Cultivating Your Marriage
  • Dealing with Fear and Identity Issues
  • Establishing a Sexual Integrity Ministry
Are meals provided during the conference?
Yes. Friday dinner and Saturday lunch are included with the registration fee. 
What time should I arrive for this event?
Check-in begins at 5:00pm on Friday, August 23rd with dinner available between 5:30 and 6:30pm.  Main sanctuary doors will open at 6:30pm, 30 minutes before the opening session.  
Is there parking available at the venue?
Yes, free parking is available on-site at Calvary Chapel Oceanside but you are highly encouraged to carpool to ensure there's a spot for everyone! 
Will this conference be livestreamed?
No. True Valor 2024 is intentionally designed to be an in-person event. The main sessions and workshops will be engaging and powerful, so we are encouraging men to clear their schedules to be here if at all possible. We also recommend coming in groups and splitting up the workshops so you can compare notes and make the most of this event!
Will childcare be provided?
Unfortunately, there will not be childcare available for this event.
Who can I contact for more information or questions about sponsorships and donations?
For more details, please contact us by email here. ​​​